Why can not older women flaunt their s3x appeal ?! Sadiq

 Some few weeks ago, I wrote about how a handful of senior girls are often inappropriately dressed at parties event, failing to admit glamour for them has passed its sell by date.  A few readers were outraged by my views whilst some believed women over 50 should not ‘flash’ their boobs and legs.  

“They ought to dress with the appropriate decorum befitting their ages”, observed Lesly.  “After the age of 50, ladies should wear clothes to the knee.  I am much more elegant; of a similar age and would never contemplate being seen in a ridiculously young apparels.

  What has happened to elegance and dignity?  What some of these senior girls are wearing in the quest to hang on to their youth would not even look good on someone half their age by they are all deluded women living in the past!”

“How sad that bruising commentary should be directed at women who dare to be different, old or young”, observed Lara, a cosmetologist.  “This extraordinary flowering of prejudice that blossoms whenever older women show off their legs is notable for two things by how often it happens and the depth hypocrisy exposed.  While younger women with terrible legs and I have seen some shocker, including 20-somethings in tiny denim shorts exposing mountainous thighs bearing glaciers of cellulite, can run around baring all without as much as a raised eyebrow, things are very different for ladies like me.  Any woman who reaches her 50s, however svelte or begulling, seems to be prejudiced from even so much as flashing a knee.

“Tell me Candida, what century do critics like you live in?  With all your racy write-ups, one would have expected you to be more broad-minded.  It would seem that young women inhabit the world of your current group of pop tarts (or are they stars really?)  Who exposed all manners of acres of flesh, while older women are expected to all but return to the Victorian age, complete with floor sweeping dresses to disguise any semblance of curve.  The hypocrisy is particularly interesting since there is a constant deafening of chorus of complaints from women as they age, that they become invisible.  Yet, when a woman in her 50s dares to hint at her sex appeal, she’s victimised.

“I’m all for cheering her from the roof tops.  Why?  After all, sexually is important to all female. Granted, any sensible woman knows we can’t hold on to the allure we had in our 20s, and 30s, but turning 50 doesn’t mean we do not long for the turn of a head or a two-lingering glance.  Becoming a middle-aged woman doesn’t mean the flint in your age is deadened for ever.  Certainly, at some point during these years, we hand over the torch of sexuality to our daughters, but still that does not mean we have to become sexually redundant!”